How do you know if you are with the person you are suppose to be with? Is there a sign or a signal that one gets when it's the right person. What about the people who thought they married the right person up until the right person becomes the wrong person. Is there such a thing as finding the "right" person? So many questions that we have about relationships that are left unanswered. Most of us do not know the difference between love and infatuation. We confused the two and most of the time this is how we end up picking the wrong person. Being infatuated is a short term feeling of passion or admiration you have for another person. During that time it feels that you have fallen in love with the man or women of your dreams. This is when we tend to make long term commitments to a short term feeling. It's important that you date some one in all seasons. Yes, I mean summer, winter, spring, and fall. I know it may sound crazy however people can have different moods for each season. Especially, during the winter and holiday season when a lot of people struggle with seasonal depression. My point is, make sure you give your self enough time to figure out what is real love versus what is infatuation.
When was the last time you took some time for yourself? Are you a person that is afraid to be alone? Let me tell you the importance of spending time with yourself. It is a must in order to regroup, refocus, and rebirth the new you. Most of the time we are crowded with thought or things that we need to do the next day instead of taking time to be in the moment. Spending time alone gives you the opportunity to hear from God. Solitude allows you to reboot your brain and unwind. Time alone gives you the opportunity to discover yourself and find your own voice. It also improves the quality of your relationships. So take time to yourself more often and don't feel guilty about it.
Stop resisting and find the lesson. I know it's hard to let go and accept the change. But the more you resist to change the more pain and hurt you cause yourself. Be open to the new possibilities that life has to offer you. The real beauty of life is unpredictable. Remember to look at change with a positive mindset and not a negative one. Finding the lesson or purpose behind every challenge will help you embrace it instead of fighting it.
Much love and respect
How do you know if it's Love or Lust?
Wonder whether you’re in love or in lust? Whether your obsession about someone is a sign of love or addiction? Whether you’re staying in a troubled relationship because you’re addicted or in love? It’s complicated, and lust and love and addiction don’t always exclude one another. Endless analyzing doesn’t help or change our feelings, because we’re often driven by forces outside our conscious awareness.
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Happy New Year rebirthers! Take time to reflect on 2016 and identify the things you need to change for 2017. Each year is another chance to become a better version of yourself.
I'm not asking you to make resolutions, but I am asking you to committ to the process of breaking free from toxic relationships and mindsets that keep you from living your best life. Take control of your happiness. You and only you are responsible for your happiness. So I ask you, how will you make your mark on 2017? This is the time to rebirth the new you. God Bless and Happy New You!