Stop resisting and find the lesson. I know it's hard to let go and accept the change. But the more you resist to change the more pain and hurt you cause yourself. Be open to the new possibilities that life has to offer you. The real beauty of life is unpredictable. Remember to look at change with a positive mindset and not a negative one. Finding the lesson or purpose behind every challenge will help you embrace it instead of fighting it.
Much love and respect